A Lover Not a Fighter

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The Middle Child

A life of unfairness is worse once you have been presented with a life of complete and utter fairness. A life where freedom is considered. A life were you have an option of winning. A life where your opinion is taken into thought rather then laughed at. A life that is fair is also impossible. A life where you can negotiate all situations, where you can have a break or two, where you can live your dream. It simply does not exist. Especially if you are the middle person of your party. Your emotions are not taken seriously. Your opinion is allows viewed as one of an ignorant teenager. No one dares to listen what you have to say because they figure it would be a waste of their time. Even as you begin to grow into an adult you are still looked at as the young, quiet one; They will always view you as the least significant. Conversations can carry on as your comments are ignored. And since you are not the youngest then you don’t get the attention that the baby of the family would get. The oldest is graduating, the youngest is graduating middle school. The oldest is engaged, the will be taking her first honors class. Never mind the middle child has been taking honors classes since her first years of her school career. Never mind that the middle child has been working night and day to get the grades her parents will be proud of. Well maybe that isn’t the reason behind her work, after all away colleges like good grades. At the end of the day, all they want is more credit. Credit for the sacrifices they make in secret. For the times they bite their tongues. For the times they are are placed on the back burner. So if you have a younger or older sibling that is the middle child, don’t make them feel this way. If you are the middle child, just know someone knows how you feel.                      - Samantha Chades

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Look at us, always busy, always rushed. Not until the end of the day, the end of the week, the end of the year, the end of our lives that we realize we never stopped. Never stopped being so busy, never stopped being so rushed. Does anyone stop to enjoy a moment in time anymore? Have we gotten to used to the beauty of the sunshine? Do we no longer find interest in the marvelous things around us? Or maybe we just don’t have the time. I mean at the end of the day that it all that matters right? … Time. - Samantha Chades

Look at us, always busy, always rushed. Not until the end of the day, the end of the week, the end of the year, the end of our lives that we realize we never stopped. Never stopped being so busy, never stopped being so rushed. Does anyone stop to enjoy a moment in time anymore? Have we gotten to used to the beauty of the sunshine? Do we no longer find interest in the marvelous things around us? Or maybe we just don’t have the time. I mean at the end of the day that it all that matters right? … Time. - Samantha Chades

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There are things in this world that we may not fathom, things we do not understand, things our limitation do not allow us to see. Yet everything in this world works in perfect harmony. Everything fits together to work perfectly, to allow the survival of the human race. The universe so full of beauty, so full of life, so full of potential. Yet some people still deny that there is a God… once again there are some things in this world that we may not fathom.  - Samantha Chades

There are things in this world that we may not fathom, things we do not understand, things our limitation do not allow us to see. Yet everything in this world works in perfect harmony. Everything fits together to work perfectly, to allow the survival of the human race. The universe so full of beauty, so full of life, so full of potential. Yet some people still deny that there is a God… once again there are some things in this world that we may not fathom.  - Samantha Chades

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“I’m selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.” - Marilyn Monroe

“I’m selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.” - Marilyn Monroe

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Those people that are never satisfied with anything you do act as your sand paper… it hurts like hell but after they are through with you will be fully polished… - Samantha Chades

Those people that are never satisfied with anything you do act as your sand paper… it hurts like hell but after they are through with you will be fully polished… - Samantha Chades

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All people have the power to change the world, but rarely do they come through. People more often think about what is wrong with the world and don’t consider what is wrong with themselves. Although there is great power in the hands of a person, they rarely put it to good use. In most cases, one’s power is used for the wrong reasons. The potential of society is beyond our imagination. But when dusk comes it is all down to one. One good decision can cause problems to vanish. Now that I know this, no one can keep me from my ambition. It is the drive that will separate the great from the ordinary. I know now what is planned for me. It is all in my hands. I have the world in my hands… - Samantha Chades

All people have the power to change the world, but rarely do they come through. People more often think about what is wrong with the world and don’t consider what is wrong with themselves. Although there is great power in the hands of a person, they rarely put it to good use. In most cases, one’s power is used for the wrong reasons. The potential of society is beyond our imagination. But when dusk comes it is all down to one. One good decision can cause problems to vanish. Now that I know this, no one can keep me from my ambition. It is the drive that will separate the great from the ordinary. I know now what is planned for me. It is all in my hands. I have the world in my hands… - Samantha Chades

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Style is something temporary, fashion is something everlasting. Style is something common, fashion is as a finger print. Style is judged and critiqued, no one can do such a thing with fashion. Style is something that someone may over look, fashion attracts all eyes… those who depend on what is in style will wait, but those who have fashion are independently inspired… - Samantha Chades

Style is something temporary, fashion is something everlasting. Style is something common, fashion is as a finger print. Style is judged and critiqued, no one can do such a thing with fashion. Style is something that someone may over look, fashion attracts all eyes… those who depend on what is in style will wait, but those who have fashion are independently inspired… - Samantha Chades

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